It's wonderful how some of these videos show female comraderie and sisterhood, where men only see hot bodies--which women like too, probably even more than they do! But with another layer invisible to the less-gentle sex.
The best way for a girl to learn about sex, with an experienced woman...so she will always think of it as an act between two women. A man's roughness will seem barbaric by comparison and will repulse her. As a lesbian sex will always be a sweet, gentle experience with many orgasms the norm.